I do readings to help the collective consciousness evolve and reflect — not to find surface-level answers.
Please put my mind to good use. If someone like me has psychic abilities that they’re “lending out to you” for a session, think carefully about what you want to ask. There’s so much more to life than wanting to know when your ex will text you or what someone at work is thinking about you.
You could ask for answers about your higher purpose. There is wisdom worth seeking beyond the workings of your surface-level life, but let’s be honest — most people don’t seek it. They get caught up in the petty storylines unfolding in their lives right now.
In my readings, I try my best to only focus on things you can control in the present moment. Many of my clients want to know the future — and I don’t blame them for that — but I don’t want to try to predict the future. We have freewill combined with destiny, and the future is often unknowable for a reason.
People also like to ask what someone is thinking or feeling about them — someone not present in the reading and with no awareness of it. In the moment, it’s possible to energetically read someone else’s thoughts or feelings. But I try not to do it because it’s invasive and unethical.
I want to shift the focus to relationships and how they help you evolve. What’s the lesson? Why is this cycle recurring in your life? What can you do to rise above it?
I’ll say it again: people have freewill. Acceptance of their choices is far more valuable to the soul than trying to figure out if you’ll end up together. Learning to let go is powerful.
Your time and money should be spent on something worthwhile. Are you going to spend them on seeking answers about a person’s behavior that you can’t control, or are you going to level up and seek answers about your choices right now?
So, going forward, I will minimize answers to questions asking me to predict the future, and answers about the innermost thoughts of other people. I may still deliver these types of messages in readings spontaneously, but it likely won’t be because the question was put to me. I’ll always pass it on as a channel if it truly is what you need to hear.
Examples of questions I won’t try to answer:
- Will I marry [person]? (That’s up to freewill of both parties.)
- Will we end up together? (If you were meant to know that, you’d already know. It wouldn’t be interesting or useful if you knew the ending.)
- What is [person] thinking or feeling about me? (This has to do with a person who isn’t present for the reading. You wouldn’t want someone to be invasive in your private thoughts. You also don’t need to know that in order to move forward.)
- When will [event] happen? (I don’t like trying to tell the future, especially if it’s also based on someone else’s freewill.)
This is not a good use of a psychic’s abilities. This isn’t why I do this.
Better questions:
- Why is this happening to me?
- What message does the universe have for me right now?
- What is the spiritual reason for me meeting this person?
- How does this experience help my soul growth?
- What’s the soul lesson here?
- What’s the purpose of this relationship in my life?
- How should I handle this going forward?
- What blockages are there that I must remove to achieve success?
Even better questions:
- What do I need to do right now to heal?
- What is my soul’s purpose in this lifetime?
- How can I use my unique abilities to help others?
- How can I become the best version of myself in this lifetime?
- How can I use this situation to become a better person?
I hope that this makes you think twice next time you seek psychic guidance. If you could ask the deepest spiritual question about your soul, then why would you pass up that opportunity just to focus on something mundane like why someone doesn’t want to talk to you?
Hi, I’m Emily! I’m an author, psychic, and spiritual coach.
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