About eighteen months ago, my twin flame died. That set in motion a completely new life for me — one that started with a lot of grief and despair. Immediately, I could sense him near me, and I could hear him. Through all the sadness, I knew that this event was no small thing on the timeline of my life. I’d lost the physical version of my cosmic best friend, but I’d gained a spirit guide. Since then, I have counseled many people on the deaths of their beloved twin flames.
It is not narcissistic to say that the death of your twin flame takes you to a level of grief that most people don’t understand. We all lose people; death is part of life. Grieving is a necessary process in the human experience. But when someone enters your life, however brief their visit is, and completely turns it upside down by opening your heart, you don’t grieve in “normal” ways. They awakened you and their death awakens you even further. Most people aren’t spiritually awakened by the death of someone close to them.
I was forced to face my psychic abilities when my twin flame died. I started to listen closely to my heart which told me about my true life purpose and the path I needed to follow. I felt that I had no choice but to write a book and start a group for people to meet and talk about this experience. I’m a counselor and the connector.
For you, it may be different. You may feel compelled to start a nonprofit or to teach others about life after death. Maybe you now understand that you’re a shaman or a spiritual leader. Perhaps you feel called to heal the planet and to commune with nature. You may have other callings that you’d never have realized without this experience.
Grief is the deepest expression of love. With the twin flame, it breaks you — but it also gives you a fire of passion.
Don’t get me wrong — there are very dark parts of this grieving process. Many times after my twin flame died, I have wished that I was dead. I’ve had self-loathing thoughts and I’ve hit rock bottom a few times. Being angry with the universe is normal. Being angry with your twin flame is normal — and having arguments with them is very normal.
It’s a funny thing to ‘lose’ someone who makes it immediately apparent that they’re still with you. Death isn’t the end — it’s a transformation. To hear the voice in your head and to start to doubt your sanity makes this journey totally wild, and most people won’t understand. Not many therapists can possibly comprehend that while you’re depressed as hell, you are simultaneously carrying on a conversation from across the veil of the spirit world.
If you know that death isn’t the end and that this person is waiting for you in spirit form, then why doesn’t this solve the grief? It just doesn’t. The grief was never about the belief that they’re totally gone, it’s about the fact that they aren’t in human form with you anymore to enjoy the adventure of life together.
There’s nothing like being in physical form with your twin flame who is also in physical form. There’s no experience as amazing as sitting on a sofa eating sandwiches and watching 1980s music videos. Nothing can replace that. A spirit can’t fill the shoes of a person.
Don’t despair. It gets better. After talking to countless people whose twin flames have passed on to the next realm, I can see how healing works a little better. You have to be extra gentle to yourself in the early stages. And it may take a very long time. Sometimes, you’ll feel very alone, and sometimes they’ll feel very present by your side. But ultimately, you will realize that it is your life to live, and it always was. Having anyone, even a twin flame, will not complete you. Only you can complete you.
The best thing you can do is align your life with your purpose every day and heal others in their memory. Healing others heals the healer.
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About Me
Hi, I’m Emily! I am also on the twin flame journey, as the experience of losing my twin flame awakened my psychic abilities and sent me on this path to help others.
