A little about my motivations and my twin flame experiences
Years have passed since I first started writing about twin flames, and my first book, Twin Flames and the Love Story Within, will turn four this summer (in 2026). I just redesigned the page of my website that displays my five published books and created new ways to buy them across different platforms as I prepare to record my first-ever audiobook. It’s been a long journey, and I want to reflect on why I felt called to write not just one, but two books about twin flames.
When my twin flame died, that started everything. I recall when I met him, I read a lot of articles about twin flames. The “literature” out there was largely about being a chaser and what one is supposed to do to get their twin flame back. I, on the other hand, began writing about how the twin flame journey drives you crazy, and what it means to heal. But back then, when he was alive, I recall having a fairly two-dimensional view of the twin flame journey.
Only a tragedy like losing your twin flame can push you to see the deeper meaning of twin flames. After he died, I saw that I’d had an overly simplistic perspective of the twin flame journey. It had been centered around figuring out how to be with them, not about how to live the rest of your life without them.
I began writing about this incredible loss and my grief. I just wrote it in the hopes that someone out there would find it useful or healing. I never intended to become a twin flame expert or to have it define the rest of my life. My articles gained attention, and as you might guess, I started to realize that I offered a unique view on this twin flame journey — one that people out there were craving.
Soon after his death, I began to write my first book. I felt that it was a way to pay tribute, and it was therapeutic to write it. I never thought it would be popular or anything.
During this time, people who had lost their twin flames contacted me, hoping to talk to someone who understood the grief and the telepathic experiences. But something curious happened — people contacted me whose twin flames weren’t dead, just because they found my writing to be a breath of fresh air. I offer a no-nonsense, grounded approach to this journey — one that isn’t focused on “union”, but more focused on the overall spiritual experience.
This is when I started to realize that my calling was in being a twin flame guide — not necessarily a coach, since I don’t know if this journey is coachable. It’s full of twists and turns by nature. I think the best thing I do for most people is to assure them that they’re not crazy.
I found that people felt validated and seen when they read what I wrote about twin flames, instead of being made to feel “lesser” because they weren’t with their twin flames in a relationship. Some of them didn’t even want to be. They resonate with what I teach because they want to speak about it as a transcendent, personal experience of self-discovery more than a romantic experience.
So, I finished my first book in 2022, Twin Flames and the Love Story Within. It has been very popular — I’ve never spent a cent on any kind of marketing, and yet it’s sold more than eight hundred copies as of today. In 2023, I published Twin Flame Transcendence. They’re both available in paperback and ebook formats — and perhaps by the time you read this, they’ll be available as audiobooks as well!
Thanks for reading.
Hi, I’m Emily! I’m an author, psychic, and spiritual coach.
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