When you start to see the connections in this world between things that most people don’t see, you transcend. You ascend. You are able to reach your consciousness past the five senses into the non-physical. Self-awareness as a soul becomes a natural part of daily life. What does it mean to have a high vibration? It is expansive and beautiful, but it has its challenges.
As this process developed in my life, I realized that I was shedding attachments to my ego. What I once felt a pull toward now doesn’t matter. Material possessions can’t fulfill my longings because they are part of the non-material world. Only knowledge and meaningful relationships can inspire me now.
Beyond that, I started to find oneness in all things. Life starts to just open up for you once you fall into a rhythm that you were born to have.
When I express myself authentically, I manifest my dreams. I have seen it happen over and over. My vibration seems to be higher, whatever that really means. Basically, my life is just beautiful and I have never felt happier in my life. I know that as I align myself with the universe, it has my back. My path will just unfold before me effortlessly and I have nothing to worry about anymore.
Ironically, I have only a small number of people to share this with. I am often alone on this path. I have the most beautiful realizations to share and the most inspirational lessons to teach, but there is almost no one to receive them. To even be able to benefit from them a little, a person’s frequency has to be on the right level.
People are mostly attached to their fears and primal urges. They can’t see the beauty that I see — even if they really wanted to.
So, I wanted to write down some of the symptoms of a high vibration so that anyone else out there who is a little lonely can understand that this is normal for the spiritual path.
Losing Friends
The spiritual path is lonely. I am not lonely — I am very happy, as I said — but the path is singular. There are only a few walking anywhere near my path. I don’t say this to be arrogant, but to be real — it’s the way of spiritual life. I accept that. But I do sometimes long for someone to share this with meaningfully. (And I am also aware that there are people out there on an even higher vibration with many lessons to teach me.)
I speak to a lot of spiritually-minded people in my client sessions who are located around the world, and I am so grateful to be part of an online community of people who get me. They accept me. I want to build communities like this. But for now, I live in a very energetically sad place — Washington, D.C. — and I consider anyone who understands my path there to be nothing short of a miracle. It’s just so rare.
Interests and Worries Change
You will lose friends along the way as you vibe higher. You stop seeing the world with a lack mindset and the understanding of full support from the universe seeps in. Your vibration graduates from the vibrations around you that matched you better in the past.
My friend groups from a couple of years ago have completely vanished from my life, and new friends have replaced them. I have also found that I’m far happier being alone than I am in the company of low vibrations. I follow my joy and choose to only surround myself with good vibes.
You elevate yourself out of negativity, worry, and sadness, therefore anyone embodying these qualities may just naturally shed themselves from your life. You may have usually hung around people who complain, and now you don’t feel the allure of such an expression. Or, you may want to stop eating or drinking things that aren’t good for you, and people around you may judge you for not wanting to engage in unhealthy behavior. People will even be angry with you for being happy and healthy. They are miserable and they won’t understand a vibration that isn’t miserable, too.
Your old friends won’t understand why you aren’t interested in the same activities — things you see now were only exercises of the ego.
As your interests and hobbies change, naturally, the people you do them with will exit your life. It can feel lonely to lose your friends, but in my experience, new ones are on their way to you. Just remember, you do not owe it to anyone to stay friends with them forever.
Activities and Desires Change
You may stop wanting to do the same things you did before to fill up your time. Things that thrilled you before may now hold far less of an appeal. You aren’t as materialistic, so you won’t find joy in buying more stuff. You are less agitated by life, so you may not have an interest in angry forms of expression anymore. Where you once took some pleasure in fighting and protesting, now you may see the divine plan in all things, and a new desire to just witness it may arise.
You just flow, so you gravitate toward activities that flow and add joy to your life.
Romantic relationships will totally change. You’ll see that you are attracting a higher vibe into your life, and potential partners will come to you like nothing you’ve ever experienced before. They will be more self-aware and ready for love — more healed. The energy that you exude will come back to you.
As I evolve, my dating life has shifted. I ended a marriage because of the abuse and now I know better what I seek in love. As I learn about myself and heal, I witness clearly how men who I date are different. The universe really does send me more conscious men to date when I learn certain lessons. As I graduate to each new level, I find myself surrounded by people on that same level who I wouldn’t have noticed before.
Your World Changes
The world will seem quite different than it was, especially if you allow it to shift. Don’t struggle against your relationships, desires, and interests changing — take it all as a sign that you need to redefine your life path. Live more authentically. The longer you take to do this, the harder it will be. You just need to accept that you’re getting better as a human being, and your world is changing accordingly.
As long as I walk away from people trying to instill fear and confusion in me, I seem to attract good things in my life. It’s all about mindset. My world changed when I realized this truth.
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