I’ve met with many twin flames over the past year and a half in my guidance sessions as a twin flame coach. Most of my clients have been women, but there are some men, too. And I’ve also noticed that most of them (if not all) are extremely hot.
I think of myself as hot, and my twin flame was a sexy person, too. But since becoming a twin flame coach, I have also had the pleasure to meet with close to one hundred twin flames in the past year alone. I know what I’m talking about here.
What do I mean by “hot” here? Well, people interested in twin flames are not only physically attractive, but incredibly self-aware, interesting, and focused on healing themselves spiritually. What could possibly be sexier than someone who is exploring their truth and developing into an evolved human? And the irony is that they come to me because their twin flames want nothing to do with them. Ridiculous, am I right? How could anyone not want to be around this kind of energy night and day?
But that’s the rub. Twin flames just don’t make sense. They never will make sense. We just can’t understand their behavior. They choose their own paths and sometimes they’d rather be alone or with someone of a lower vibration. Who knows why. It must be about fear. The universe requires twin flames to have a hard time coming together because it’s a practice in coming home to yourself.
Twin flames challenge you to heal deeply and rapidly, and it’s painful as hell. People who have endured that level of suffering are the hottest humans on this planet.
Everyone’s twin flame story is a different, I’ve realized. Of course, there are many similarities — and those are the things that bring us together so that we can talk about it and analyze it. For instance, twin flames bring with them a spiritual awakening. And they face many challenges in coming together in union.
There are bigger struggles between the flames for some couples than for others. Whatever the struggle is, it mirrors what is happening in the inner healing journey, which is different for everyone. Recurring themes I’ve seen include unworthiness, addiction, and past life trauma. Internal struggles reign supreme in this journey.
Usually, the masculine energy is the “runner” and the feminine energy is the “chaser”. In same-sex couples and platonic twin-flame relationships, this still rings true. The feminine always awakens first, it seems. And the masculine runs from the intense love connection.
If you’re the chaser, it’s exceptionally hard to get through this. You’re awakened to the significance of this relationship and it drives you absolutely bonkers while you try to be with your twin flame — your mirror — who won’t have anything to do with the situation. The person who seems to enhance your existence exponentially won’t even talk to you — isn’t that insane?
But there is nothing sexier to me than someone having an existential meltdown.
Just take your hot self and keep doing the inner healing work. Face your deep wounds. Explore your shadows. You’re spiritually sexy. You’re a fox. The rest of us awakened people can see that.
Don’t give up on the path of healing and the road to union with your twin flame. Never give up hope on the miracles that can happen in your life. If you need time to heal and go into seclusion for that, then by all means, do just that. The sexiest thing in the universe is a dark night of the soul.
