Some coaches can help you find self-love, which is a very difficult state to achieve. But some people “use” the self-love journey as a means to an end: getting their twin flame back. This simply isn’t how it works. Self-love is for you, not for anyone else.
You can’t mastermind your way to getting them back. No coach out there can change your twin flame’s behavior or make them talk to you. If someone promises you this outcome of their services, even by teaching you to love yourself more, they’re selling snake oil.
Why I Don’t Like the Term “Twin Flame Coach”
I have taken on the label “twin flame coach” with reluctance. Over the years, I realize that people use the term to find me via internet searches, so I have accepted it. But I don’t believe one can be coached on this journey because it’s a paradox. You have met your twin flame, but you soon realize it’s really a story about you.
Some coaches can help you seek inner bliss. You may be able to establish equilibrium within yourself. This, to me, is the goal of incarnating on Earth, and it’s the ultimate pursuit. When you get there, you’ve won at life. You’ll be mentally free. And then it won’t matter if your twin flame comes back.
This is a long path to attainment. So, when you’ve met your twin flame, most of your attention will inevitably be dedicated to the paradox of your twin flame existing and not having the ability to be in “physical union” with you. It’s natural to pine for this person. It feels so impossible and unfair.
Just remember that nobody can interrupt the freewill of another human. And even if you could, would you want to be in a relationship with someone whose mind you control? I certainly hope not.
Twin Flames Aren’t Coachable Things
As much as it’s hard to accept, it’s a solitary path even when it is also a path alongside your twin flame. It doesn’t make sense to our human minds. So, it’s not a coachable situation. It makes much more sense to find a self-love coach or a transformation coach.
I avoid using the term “twin flame coach” because I provide guidance sessions (not intended as a coaching journey) and psychic readings (which can often be better than regular coaching). I do, however, proudly claim the title of Meditation Coach. Meditation is a very coachable learning journey.
But the twin flame journey? I don’t see this as anything but an unpredictable, chaotic, intentionally harrowing journey that nobody can hold your hand through. The best I can do is hear your story, provide wisdom, and encourage you to find the answers yourself.
This is not a coachable journey; it’s pure chaos.
An Alternative to Coaching
All the answers you seek are within you. But many people have trouble listening to their inner voices. I can help with that through meditation instruction, talk sessions, and psychic readings.
My readings add the benefit of channeling messages that the universe wants you to hear, but it’s still up to you to transform yourself. Nobody can walk this path for you. The best I can do is open your mind to things you may not have seen before. I also offer encouragement, as I get excited about the spiritual paths of my clients, but I don’t usually call this “coaching” in any traditional, systematic sense.
I truly believe in the empowerment of those who seek answers, so that they can find the answers themselves instead of relying on an outside source. Any coach or guru who keeps you reliant on them for wisdom is not a true spiritual teacher.
Twin Flame Coaching
Hi, I’m Emily! Talk about your twin flame and spiritual journey with someone who gets it. Understand the purpose of this experience for you. I provide guidance in the form of talk sessions and psychic readings. Read more about me here.
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