If your twin flame follows normal relationship rules or has predictable behavior, they’re probably not really your twin flame. In fact, if the whole situation with them makes any sense at all, they’re not your twin. I’m sorry to say it, but it’s true. Twin flame relationships just never make sense.
Countless people who call themselves a ‘twin flame coach’ will try to convince you that all you need to do is heal yourself and focus on yourself, and your twin flame will be in union with you. Easy peasy! But I’m a twin flame coach, and I do not promise you this result. The whole point is spiritual awakening, and I try to guide people toward this focus and understanding.
I teach self-reflection and soul connection, not how to change someone else’s behavior to make them fall in love with you. I can’t help you manifest true love with another person. That sounds like something a Disney villain would promise.
The end goal should never be to have this person come to you — because no person, even your twin flame, can fulfill you. Only you can do that.
The universe created this situation for you because great discomfort brings great awakenings.
If you’re awakening because you’re separated from your twin flame, then why would the universe change that? The only reason you’d ever be in union with your twin flame, spiritually, would be if you could find even more discomfort that way. This is how the soul learns and grows.
We came to Earth to learn. It’s soul university! So, for those of us really looking for an adventure, it’s going to be a wild ride so that our souls can do some major expansion. Really uncomfortable things have to happen to us. Being in a happy relationship with the love of our lives won’t be pushing us outside our comfort zones. The twin flame experience is here to mirror your soul to the point that you simply must change something big.
The truth is, you planned this insanity before you were born. If you know your true twin flame, it’s unmistakable because the road is full of unbelievable twists and turns that involve situations you couldn’t make up even if you tried. (But of course, you did make it up because you co-authored this in your soul contract in order to reach a higher state of existence closer to enlightenment.) The plot of your life is never simple, and twin flame plots are even crazier than most. Twin flame relationships are a wild ride.
Twin flames are wild and wonderful. Anyone who wants you to believe that it’s going to make sense and follow ‘normal’ relationship rules has a very simplistic view of it. Anyone who tries to teach you that all you need to do is heal for a little while and then you can have the love of your dreams is just flat-out wrong. Nothing will be obvious or logical. No one, not even a twin flame coach, can possibly predict what’s going to happen.
The honest truth is that it sucks and you just have to get used to it. You’re going to be losing your mind for a while, maybe until you die. But hey, that’s kinda fun sometimes, too, right?
I won’t sell you quick fixes or deceptions. I don’t sugarcoat. I won’t lie. Feel free to book a session with me and we can talk about your twin flame relationship and how you can find that perfect love inside yourself — where it always was.
Hi, I’m Emily. I’m a twin flame coach among other things. For more about me, check out my about page or book a session with me.
