The universe decides what’s going on, not you.
After you meet your twin flame, life seems to change course abruptly. And this can become very uncomfortable.
A lot of people have trouble letting go of control in their lives. They want to be the masters of their own destiny, naturally. On the twin flame journey, in order to take back control, people will often go to one extreme or the other. They’ll either say, “I refuse to lose my mind over this person!” or “I must find any way I can to be with this person!”
Unfortunately, neither one of these decisions is up to you when you’re on a twin flame journey. The universe has its plan. It’s time to surrender.
It’s Part of a Divine Plan
There is such a thing as destiny. It’s that mysterious force that determines the outcomes of our lives. It is part of the great workings of the universe; the divine plan. You are a piece of a system that needs to do its work as part of the process of the universe. Your life must unfold in order for the greater goals to be achieved.
There’s also something called freewill. It seems to contradict the concept of destiny, unless you understand that freewill is a necessary part of the process, too. We must experience free choice in order to find the right path by continually being set back on course. We are guided back to the destiny path over and over by the universe, and we learn about it through the free choices we make.
What Is Surrender?
To surrender, we have to let go of the outcome. We have to live in the present moment only and align with destiny. Releasing control is the hardest thing you can do, and the most worthy pursuit in a lifetime. It’s why we’re here — to learn non-attachment. If it were easy, then none of this human life stuff would have meaning.
For those who have met their twin flames, the experience is the catalyst for the pursuit of surrender. (It can happen in different ways to different people, but with twin flames, it’s caused by meeting them.) Only when you experience deep discomfort do you have the desire and will to rise above the suffering. Only when you’re pushed to the edge do you have a reason to find a higher level of consciousness that can be your liberation.
Surrender is deep trust in the universe. It’s when you stop trying to control or force things. If you truly surrender, you will find yourself flowing with reality as if you’re riding the current of a river on a raft, enjoying the journey and feeling alive. All the experiences you have had, including the suffering, are part of a great plan and have always moved with the oneness of the universe, but you only understand this when you surrender fully. Then, you are at peace. This is transcendence.
What You Do Next
Having read thus far, you may be trying to find a way to accelerate your awakening. You’re a smart person, and you know you can figure this out, right? You may be committed to surrendering, and so much so that you want to do it now. You want to be the best at awakening.
You may be asking what to do next and how to get it done immediately so you can escape from your suffering because it’s so unbearable.
The very act of asking how to surrender is an attempt to take control. What you need to be doing is letting your mind go blank. Instead of doing something about this surrender, you should be not-doing. You just do nothing — stop trying. Stop grasping for control. Turn your monkey mind off.
I recommend meditation on this journey — it’s the only way to truly let go and allow your nervous system to come to a place of peace.
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