If you’re confused, that’s for a good reason.
Those of us who’ve met our twin flames know that it’s a mind-bending experience. Twin flames are insanity. Everything you thought you knew about life is called into question and it often feels like you’re losing your mind. What’s crazy is that no part of the story makes sense in terms of other, ‘normal’ relationships. Labels like ‘toxic’ and ‘healthy’ don’t seem to apply at all. Things hold you back from being in union with your twin flame that simply make no logical sense at all.
You and this person are drawn to each other, and yet you can’t be together. What could be weirder?
Personally, my twin flame can’t be with me because he died. And we had a tragically short time together before that event. It made no sense. People with such love for each other should be able to have time together, right? Or so I often ask myself.
In the stories people tell me about their twin flame journeys, I often look for a few essential indications that it’s a twin flame relationship. First, there has to be a strong element of spiritual awakening, since that’s the point of a twin flame experience. There should also be a timeline of separation during which there is difficult or no communication between the two people. But it’s also very important that it makes no sense whatsoever. This is twin flame insanity.
Fear of Love
It sounds really strange to someone who’s never met their twin flame, but these two people can’t communicate or be together for reasons that have nothing to do with toxicity, negative intentions, or malice. One or both of the twins just find it difficult to be together because there is an intense fear within them of true love that must be healed.
They probably aren’t even aware of this fear. We rarely are aware of our deepest fears. This kind of fear makes people behave in ways that don’t seem reasonable to most people. Why wouldn’t you go be with the one you love?
It’s just too scary for some people.
Love Must Win
People in our modern world like to view others as the enemy. We look for transgressions committed by others so that we can blame them and protect ourselves. We are steeped in separation. We forgot that we’re all one, and twin flames remind us that there is a connection.
Relationships don’t always go wrong because one or both of the people are mean or nasty. Things aren’t that clear-cut. We don’t always have to be looking out for red flags and setting boundaries. These are activities of people who are living in fear of others and see relationships as a battle to be won. Dominance, abuse, and victimhood just don’t seem like it happens with twin flames because of the immense love.
“Normal” Relationship Rules Don’t Apply
Twin flame relationships are weird because there’s an intense fear of true love that resides within us all. It requires lowering boundaries and accepting flaws of people. It drives us toward unconditional love.
In a world where we’re programmed to run at the first sign of perceived toxicity, it is very hard to understand why love is so important. But love must win.
It’s just the fear of merging and finding true love that terrifies some of us. Often, we think we are not worthy of that level of unconditional love. Twin flame love can really be scary if you haven’t healed wounds within your heart.
Twin flame insanity helps you understand that there’s not always an explanation for everything in this life.
Hi, I’m Emily. I’m a twin flame coach among other things. To speak with me, book a session with me.
I am also the author of Twin Flames and the Love Story Within, available on Amazon. You may also be interested in the Twin Flame Support Group that I run.
