
Your twin flame can seem like a human mess.
One reason the twin flame experience is so hard is that you can see your twin flame’s soul beyond their physical form. When the physical experience of reality does not match this higher perception of your twin flame, confusion sets in. The twin flame experience is at odds with what I call “the human mess”.
Human life is messy and none of us has all the answers. We must try our best while we’re here, but we face multitudes of moral dilemmas all the time. In addition, we often don’t know how to process our human emotions. Your twin flame may have made some strange decisions along the way, and their behavior may defy what you know to be true in the relationship. The soul knows the truth.
Between you, you share a deep connection. This bond can’t be broken. Unfortunately, many of us see little evidence of it in physicality. The bond exists mainly on the spiritual level. Only the most advanced souls can come together with their twin flames in a state of harmony. Most of the time, one or both of the twin flames is unaware of the spiritual aspects of the relationship.
This journey transcends human experience. It is primarily spiritual. The love emanates into the human world from the soul level. It’s easy to forget this when you’re caught up in the human mess of the twin flame journey. But your soul hasn’t forgotten.
Your twin flame may be drowning in a whirlwind of inner turmoil. They may be deep in a state of denial. They may be succumbing to substance addictions or choosing relationships that harm them in the long run. It’s very hard to witness all of this human mess in someone you love so deeply. You may even feel the chaos they’re experiencing because you’re so connected, which makes it even harder.
My advice is to anchor yourself in the spiritual realm. Keep your awareness of the situation in higher consciousness. See them as a soul on a journey, and this current incarnation is just one chapter of that journey. It makes it easier when you accept that they must follow their own path and you must follow yours. It will all end up making sense someday, somehow.


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Hi, I’m Emily! I am also on the twin flame journey, as the experience of losing my twin flame awakened my psychic abilities and sent me on this path to help others.