It’s so hard to “move on” from a twin flame obsession. This isn’t just an everyday connection. Most people won’t understand. When you’ve met someone you’re attracted to, but who also causes a series of wild experiences both inside and outside you, there’s no going back. You can’t just get over this and forget about it. It’s beyond romance — it’s a spiritual experience. Why wouldn’t you be obsessed?
It’s not like a mundane relationship. Only those who have also met their twin flames can understand this. For many people, this experience immediately makes it obvious that they must look within and heal. It shoves personal development and shadow work in your face. Whether the twin flame is in your life or not speaking to you, you can feel the need for inner improvement growing to uncomfortable levels. They trigger you like no one else can.
It’s Not Like Other Relationships
It’s not a “normal” experience of meeting someone you like, only to have them ghost you. It’s not just about feeling a connection and being comfortable around this person. It’s not just a bad breakup. These are all normal experiences in the modern dating world, and we know the pattern. But twin flames don’t make sense like that. No, this isn’t the same.
All relationships mirror you to some extent, but your twin flame is an extreme mirror of your inner insecurities and wounds. So, that’s the first level of insanity. They’re showing you who you really are, and it’s wildly uncomfortable.
When you meet your twin flame, you finally meet yourself.
Secondly, things start to happen. Weird things. They smack you in the face. You start to see repeated numbers and words. Animals might start acting strangely or appearing right in front of you. You might have supernatural experiences like seeing UFOs or spirits. Your psychic abilities could start to kick up a notch, too. Or all of the above at once, which honestly is way too much for the average person to take, especially if they’re also recovering from a breakup.
It Can Happen to Anyone
Most of my twin flame clients are highly intelligent, educated people. I know that’s hard for some people to swallow because generally, people think twin flames are a woo-woo, silly idea that only appeals to vulnerable people. But that is not the case. This happens to people from all walks of life — meeting your twin flame could happen to you at any moment, and usually happens just when you least expect it.
So, we have very smart people who have their lives together meeting twin flames who they become obsessed with, and they’re embarrassed. It feels shameful to be a corporate executive who can’t shake an obsession about a man she’s met only a few times. It’s hard to be a brain surgeon who is bombarded by signs from the universe at every turn. And even if you’re not in a high-stress career, you are still led through a gauntlet on this journey.
It’s almost a requirement that you will lose your mind at some point after meeting your twin flame.
Mental Meltdowns
Meeting my twin flame made me feel like I was losing my ever-loving mind. I was having a meltdown almost all the time for a while. It was a combination of wonder at life in the universe mixed with extreme depression. I was feeling awe and hopelessness at the same time, plus obsession. It was twenty-four-seven paradoxes thrown in my face.
I had to figure out who I was after meeting this person, and at the same time, still live a functional life without people suspecting that I was losing my marbles.
People who’ve met their twin flames are scared that they belong in a mental hospital. It’s a legit spiritual awakening.
It’ll Pass Eventually
After a while, of course, equilibrium is restored. You have to calibrate yourself to the vibration of your new reality and that takes time. Hope is not lost and life does go on. The obsession subsides. Things get better.
But don’t blame yourself for your twin flame obsession, because it’s an important experience in your soul evolution. It’s also destiny.
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Hi, I’m Emily! I am also on the twin flame journey, as the experience of losing my twin flame awakened my psychic abilities and sent me on this path to help others.
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