Meeting your twin flame is a confusing experience, especially during the stage of separation when you see no reason to even hope for a reunion. No matter how much you ‘work on yourself’ or wish that you could sever the connection with this person, the pain is still there. Let’s talk about how to survive twin flame separation because it’s not easy and not a simple thing.
The confusion that meeting your twin flame causes is off the charts. Often, there will be some kind of nonsensical barrier keeping you from your twin flame.
Some people seek to run away from the pain by attempting to keep a grip on their ‘old’ lives (which rarely works out). Others recognize the need to ‘heal’ and face what’s going on. Only a few dare to completely change their lives and embrace the transformation of the twin flame journey by radically shifting their level of consciousness.
There’s No Quick Fix
There is a problem. Many are convinced by a plethora of internet articles and videos telling them that there’s a simple recipe to follow to get their twin flame back which involves self-awareness. There are countless twin flame coaches available at any moment to take your money and help you connect with your twin flame.
It sounds so simple: you just need to ‘work on yourself’ and be patient, and they’ll come back. Some people even make it sound like it’s quick.
While I agree that this journey forces you to do some inner work and become a better person, it should not be a means to an end. And the universe works in divine timing. Nothing is guaranteed except your own choices. Twin flame stories rarely have fairytale endings.
They are only “happily ever after” when you’ve chosen to be happy with yourself and taken this experience as an opportunity to evolve.
Heal for You
Never embark on a spiritual journey in order to get something to happen in your material life. Your healing should transform your relationships because you approach them from a more secure place, not because you’ve made that person change their behavior.
Living in an authentic way is for you, not for someone else, even your twin flame. Doing inner work is good in itself. Don’t use it to get someone in your life.
If you are operating in a way that everything you do is focused on your twin flame coming back, then you’ve missed the point. This is not “working on yourself” in its true essence. The real work is in letting go and finding happiness within.
The Only Way is Through Yourself
On a twin flame journey, the only way to heal is by going within. You have to face the scariest parts of yourself. You can’t just focus on surface-level things like the situation, the person, and their behavior. This is a deep dive into the soul.
You have to be brave. Own your mistakes. Take responsibility for the energy field you’ve created. Learn how you aren’t loving yourself enough.
What’s really important is what’s beneath the surface — what you can’t see. You have to face the hidden lessons, the trauma you carry from childhood, and the connection of the two souls. It may make you feel completely crazy as you begin to unravel things that others don’t observe. Only you can see what’s really going on, and therefore it is a spiritual and solitary journey.
There’s no easy answer. Twin flames don’t always make sense. You can’t control what’s happening. It will teach you — and often, force you — to release control. The only thing you can do is focus on your inner truth and inner happiness.
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About Me
Hi, I’m Emily! I am also on the twin flame journey, as the experience of losing my twin flame awakened my psychic abilities and sent me on this path to help others.
