It’s like lightning striking.
People often come to me to find out if they’ve met their twin flame. I always tell them that only they can really know that, but that I can help identify the signs. I can guide people by telling them what aspects I usually look for. What I tell them is this: the number one sign that you’ve met your twin flame is that you’re losing your mind.
I’m not saying you’re merely going crazy with obsession. That can happen in other types of relationships. This goes a step beyond — it’s a kind of insanity where you lose touch with reality. Your certainty about all the things you were doing until meeting your twin flame disappears. You’re left with questions — so any questions. You have to begin building a new relationship with the universe, and it’s not easy.
Twin flames come into your life as a shock. It’s like lightning striking. Your spiritual self-awareness becomes the focus. You can have a spiritual awakening in many ways and at different times in your life, but this one is specifically set in motion by the encounter you have with your twin flame — the mirror of your soul.
Your twin flame is another you. When you meet yourself, there’s no choice but to have your mind blown. Unless you’re completely self-aware and secure with your spiritual path, you won’t simply sail through this twin flame experience. It will leave its mark on you. It will fundamentally change your life. If it doesn’t, it’s not a twin flame.
I am willing to go as far as to say that all other “signs of a twin flame” that people talk about don’t matter. There are similarities with many twin flame stories, but this is the only sign that really matters.
Twin flames don’t need to be romantic. They don’t need to have ever been in a relationship. They don’t need to be in “physical union” or even have the ability to be. All that the universe requires in this twin flame journey is that one of the two people has a spiritual awakening. They begin down a new path that will make them a better human and help their soul evolve.
If it isn’t like being hit by a spiritual truck, then it won’t make an impact on you. It has to be wild and insane. It has to involve all areas of your life. It’s a transformation of the most intense kind.
Hi, I’m Emily! I’m an author, psychic, and spiritual coach.
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