How Can You Live Without Your Twin Flame?

Twin flames are hard to deal with. It’s an uphill battle. It’s a journey of the soul to heal. Coming into union is not guaranteed, and yet, it feels like it should be. You may think that there will never be another connection like the one you have with your twin. You could be right, but who’s to say for sure? You must open yourself to the possibility for it to even have a chance of happening. How can you live without your twin flame? What does life look like when you can’t be together?

I lost my twin flame earlier this year. The grief, feelings of great loss, and sadness pervade my existence, though it’s gotten easier. It seems so unfair that I finally found peace and union with this wonderful person, and they were taken from me. I wondered how I could go on and why I am still here.

Everyone’s twin flame journey is different. Some of us simply can’t be with our twin flames in the living realm because of a clash of personalities or a strange set of circumstances. No matter what, it seems horribly unfair of the universe to create such a person and then prevent us from being with them fully.

Well, folks, there is good news for you: there’s life after twin flames. There are other experiences to be had. Your twin flame comes in to teach you how to love yourself. They show you ultimate, divine love. And with that wisdom, you can now go forth into the world to love some more.

If You’re in Twin Flame Separation

You’re the chaser, that’s why you’re reading this. You desperately want to be with your twin flame. You’re trying to continue to live your life and it feels like you’re unsuccessful. This person is around somewhere on the earth plane, too, and they seem to want nothing to do with you.

Maybe they’re scared. Maybe they can’t open themselves to true love. Well, just for today, what if you stopped focusing on the ‘why’ of it all and thought about what you can do here while you’re alive?

I know two people who met in the twin flame support group that I recently started, and they are able to recognize deep love in each other. They’re in love and they know how to love. One of them experienced the loss of their twin flame and the other simply can’t be with their twin. They are moving forward into something beautiful by embracing the things they do have instead of what they don’t.

Of course, it helps that they both know what love is and fully allow themselves to have it. People who know their twin flames (the chasers) are open to deep and intense experiences. They are emotionally mature enough to have real love. Does this sound like you?

If Your Twin Flame Died

I know quite a few people now whose twin flames have died. They come to me because they found my articles on the subject. Our twin flame support group is largely for people whose twin flames died. We grieve and we share these weird experiences. A few of us are trying to date again.

There may be no one you’ll ever find again with that level of deep connection, but you can still love.

I have found that when I focus on establishing a good relationship, just trying to love the other person without ego and fear, then I feel like my twin flame lessons weren’t for nothing. I was taught to love by this twin flame — why would I keep that to myself?

I am grateful for the short time we had together for our love. I focus on this gratitude. I see that when I try to love again, nothing can be lost. I don’t need to worry anymore that the greatest love will be taken from me — all I have is love to give. And I’m opening myself to the possibility that there can be something better out there.

I operate without fear in my intimate relationships. The worst has already happened to me, so what could go wrong now? Nothing. I have nothing to lose at all. And maybe I can make someone else happy along the way.

Don’t Lose Hope

Whatever happens, never stop thinking that there are miracles ahead. You must keep some faith, even in the darkest of times.

Twin flames blow our minds and turn reality upside down. It’s insanely painful. But why would the universe give you such a thing to endure if there wasn’t some reason for it? Find that reason. There are people out there beyond your twin flame who would cherish your love.

Hi, I’m Emily. I’m the author of the book Twin Flames and the Love Story Within. In addition to writing, I also teach meditation, read tarot, create podcasts, and coach others spiritually. I even offer twin flame coaching. For more about me, have a look at my website. If my writing helps you, you’re always welcome to buy me a coffee.

The divine in me recognizes the divine in you.