My twin flame taught me what love is. That’s the greatest gift anyone has ever given me. He really loved me — that was unconditional love. He died, but the soul lesson will stay with me forever. His spirit stays with me, too, and I know he wants me to try to find romantic love again while I’m still on this planet. However, finding love after a twin flame isn’t easy.
Platonic love is easy. I see love everywhere. I have the best friends I could ever dream of. People keep entering my life who fulfill me and bring me joy. I am grateful.
But to have a relationship with someone who is not my twin flame? This is hard. I seek that thrill and connection — that attraction. That passion. Someone who is on my vibrational level. The kind of partnership that teaches me, supports me, and enlivens my soul. This is very rare to find indeed.
The Twin Flame Love Experience
My twin flame recognized my soul purpose and encouraged me to keep working at it. I haven’t found anyone else yet who even gets it.
He also knew how to communicate with me. When something stressful came up — as it inevitably does in life — he smoothed it over with expressions of support and understanding. Unexpected challenges weren’t scary and didn’t cause big fights like they had in my marriage.
It’s strange how most other people don’t fit. I love a lot of people and I’ve tried dating a lot of men, but when it comes to having a real relationship, it’s like a puzzle piece without the exact fit. My twin flame fit my soul.
Non-twin flame love will always be different from this deep soul-level love.
Dating Other People is Hard
It’s not just me. Anyone who has met their twin flame struggles with dating others. We know what love is, so we seek it over and over. Our hearts are open! And yet it’s so hard because no one seems to thrill us the way the twin flame does.
Many people have told me about their twin flame journeys and how dating has become a whole new ballgame. Finding love after a twin flame for them could involve approaching their marriage totally differently or dating with completely new intentions.
We are the lucky ones because we know what real love is — and we long to share it with others. We can’t easily be with our twin flames, but we don’t want to be alone either. However, sharing this kind of deep love with someone else also seems like a hopeless endeavor because there are not many people out there who are on our level.
Keep Choosing Love
My advice is to choose love no matter what happens. It may hurt you over and over, but the goal of human life is to understand love fully. Your twin flame helped you open your heart and you have achieved this goal — now that you understand it, bring it to others.
Keep trying. The universe is made of love, so the more you connect with that infinite source, the more love you will find in your life. It may not come to you the way you expected, but it is always trying to find you.
I’m going to keep choosing love at all costs.
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About Me
Hi, I’m Emily! I am also on the twin flame journey, as the experience of losing my twin flame awakened my psychic abilities and sent me on this path to help others.
