The world didn’t end, even though I was sure it would.
When my twin flame died in January 2022, I thought that was the end for me. I didn’t want to live anymore, and I certainly didn’t think I’d ever find love again. I basically lost hope for the future. I assumed I’d live as a shell of a person until my natural time of death, however long that might take. Living day to day was a struggle, to say the least.
The day after I’d found out that he died, I went to Cassadaga for their Sunday service and booked a psychic reading with a medium named Lori Carter. She took my daughter and me into her office, where I sat in front of her on a chair, tears constantly streaming. I think she held my hands. She said two things to me that really stuck with me. One was “you are a powerful psychic medium,” and the other was “although it seems impossible right now, you will find love again.”
I resisted both ideas. But I knew the first to be obviously true immediately. The second was something I couldn’t fathom at the time, but thank goodness she said it. It lit a small candle of hope in my heart that has carried me through the years until now.
For a long time, I didn’t want to love anyone else. I couldn’t imagine it. There was too much shock, trauma, and spiritual doubt to allow the idea that there was someone else out there for me. But time heals, and I became stronger — more willing to stay here and start my life again.
I eventually started dating, but I did it cynically. I was just filling up time. I couldn’t expect anyone to match the level of feeling I had for that man, so I just sought the bare minimum: companionship and a safeguard against loneliness.
But in February 2025, everything changed.
Love never announces itself — whether it be twin flame love or soulmate love. It just arrives unexpectedly. There’s nothing anyone can do to prepare for it.
So, the week of Valentine’s Day, I met a wonderful man. I was insecure and resistant in the face of the possibility of real love. I realized how significant this relationship was going to be, and it terrified me. I couldn’t allow myself to go through such pain ever again! It’s scary, you know. Sometimes it feels safer to just run away. I started to understand the runners in all of these twin flame stories.
But, of course, being the spiritually inclined and intuitive person that I am, I stuck with it. I didn’t run away.
The wildest things began to happen. On our first date, we were in a restaurant, and the song Higher Love played on the speakers. That’s the song I associate with my twin flame! I nearly lost it.
I wanted to run into the bathroom and cry. It was him. He was there, sending me signs that this is the one.
It happened again on our second date. And third. It was a reminder that he’s there watching over me. It was his way of telling me that this was all meant to be. He wants me to find love again. He is guiding me.
The dead can send signs whenever they want, but often use songs and electronic devices to channel their messages to us. And they know it’s perfect because it will seem mundane to others, but it will make sense to the one person who needs to hear it.
This soulmate is a videographer. I didn’t think that was significant when I met him, but it proved to be important for my journey.
Months went by, and the world began to change drastically around us. One day, I asked him if he would like to create my social media videos and manage my YouTube account. I hadn’t really made much of myself on YouTube, and videos on TikTok and Instagram were sometimes successful, but help was appreciated.
I have always seen my writing as my primary way to get my message out into the world. Since my twin flame died, I have written countless articles and two books about twin flames. I found a fulfilling purpose in elevating humanity with my wisdom. Although some of the past several years have been dark, I have learned to use this experience to communicate messages of strength to humanity. But I have mainly done this through my writing.
It’s not that I am bad at speaking, but I didn’t have a video expert to help me grow my audience. Until now!
It turns out that we are a perfect match, in far more ways than I could have imagined. He’s now been making my social media content for months, and I’m gaining a lot of momentum. Just this week, I had two videos on TikTok earn 30k+ views each. Things are changing.
We also work in partnership, supporting each other with our different skills. It’s highly satisfying to me, as a true Libra who loves partnership in all forms. Perhaps it isn’t a twin flame partnership, but it’s a connection that furthers my mission on this planet.
The universe sent me this man. I know it. My twin flame made sure I had the tools I needed to succeed in my new life purpose and the love I needed to stay hopeful about life.
November 2025 update: We got married at the courthouse on November 12th!
Love after a twin flame is possible. Don’t give up. Never stop believing in miracles.
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